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Kiko Denzer's avatar

I just spent two months working with a 20 year old who had abandoned his smart phone because it was impinging on his time and his ability to focus. Within himself, he seemed to have found something larger, something that he couldn't access thru the phone or with his peers. He continues to seek that larger thing, by himself, and with others — when they're not on their phones, or otherwise consumed by all that would distract them from the larger thing inside themselves — which is why he loves singing in a choir, because the goal is a harmony that none can acheive by themselves, and that is bigger, even, than the group.

Harmony contains both "good" and "evil" — tho we may never understand the boundaries that separate one from the other. How can we define what we cannot see or know? We can’t get to that place of harmony by ourselves. Neither can a group of us force anyone to go there. It's a mystery.

Here’s a lovely line from Richard Wagamese’s lovely movie (from his book), Indian Horse:

"Mystery fills us with awe and wonder. It is the foundation of humility and humility is the foundation of all learning. So we do not seek to unravel it. We honor it by letting it be that way forever."

It seems to me we can’t unravel good from evil. But we can seek to live in the mystery, cultivate humility, learn to make compost, love the humus that results, and go deeper into the mysteries of life, death, and fertility.

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Lisa Fitzhugh's avatar

I have discovered a flimsy-ness in the fiction of control (evil) that appears so real to us these days. Several months ago I filed an Ethics Complaint at my son's university, GWU in Washington DC. It named top administrators at the university for continuing a mandate for students to receive the COVID booster to continue their education. I shared 7 research studies showing the risk/reward ratio for this vaccine is severely skewed to the risk side for this age cohort. And emphasizing that it is now almost 2023 and the majority of the population has gotten COVID, many times over in some cases. I have gotten the run around with my complaint, referred to this person and then onto another. They even closed my case without it having been resolved. I did finally have a call scheduled with the Chair of the Covid Advisory Panel that is making the decision to re-up the mandate for students this spring. When I shared my questions with him in advance of our call, he wrote back that they relied on credible sources and were clear in their need for the mandate for 'student saftey'. While processing the rage regarding this insane response, and his lack of willingness to address my question regarding how they integrated the peer-reviewed findings I shared, I reached out to my son and asked him about what was going on. He had gotten an exemption for the booster last year and his girlfriend, also at GWU, had simply ignored it. Nothing had ever happened, no one followed up, and this mandate simply didn't have any teeth, it was just air. The students who followed it, did so because they believed it was real. Students who did not, discovered it was just lip service. A political stunt really. So in the spirit of Charles' piece here about there probably being no actual puppeteers, voila. There may, in truth, be none except those we focus on and give power to. Food for thought!

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